The latest AP story on interracial relationships created yet another wave of interesting comments from around the net. The true colors of some folks were seen in all of its glory.
From AJC:
“Most White woman that date black men are usually white trash or they want to be black. There are exceptions though but that is the majority I see. Most of the white women have several black baby daddy’s. I know some white men that date black woman, reason why, is because black woman usually take care of the family more and are not as needy as white woman.”
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“I’m a white female in Atlanta. I work with a lot of young black women and I can tell you the answer. As a group, they are usually downright crabby and intolerant of anyone messing with them. They are distrustful, b*** and lazy. It seems like the are all out to find a man to treat them like a princess. I have never seen a more spoiled group of brats as the 20 to early 30’s black women in my workplace.”
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“White women who date black men have poor self esteem. black men who date white women have a self hate problem.”
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“If I had a good black man in my life I would give him all the sandwiches he wants and then some, but they are so hard to find.”
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The real deal is that white girls give infinite-no-hesitation-anytime-you-want it gummy…simple as that…
of course when that’s done i prefer a strong black woman
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For one thing, white women keep themselves in shape and exercise, while black women sit around, watching TV, and eating fried chicken all day. Black women need to stop equating thick with in shape. Newsflash black women…thick means fat…
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When im driving I cant help but notice that there are soo many bm/w ww in FL where I live. What is it with them. I mean yes there are some very pretty caucasion women in the world but still there are soo many georgeous black women also.
But what really caught my mind was when I saw the cutest black guy with this scragly hair white woman…. and I was light WOW….. is it because these women are easy becuase there better or am i hating…….but I highly doubt the last two.
sooo please help me to understand brothers!!!!
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Only on the internet do you see sooooo many perfect educated black women with movie star looks who so-called “hate” thugs. Yeah, right. We all know good and well that’s what they prefer. PLEASE GOD let’s cut the BS. Try being a good college brotha out here and see the thanks you get from your sistas.
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Me personally, I just find white women more attractive on average and I can relate better to them culturally.
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Speechless!!
And finally, here is a comment from Dell Gines–commenter over at BookerRising (good quote, IMO):
“I for one could give a care less what folks think about me and my white wife.
None of you gave me five kids, none of you had my back when I was flat broke, none of you are being an excellent mother to my children. So why are you trying to assume I made a ‘error’ when if you subtract the race factor the things I value in a marriage I am getting?
Like my friend said once to a sister who was rolling her eyes when he was with a white girl…”Why you trippin? If I wasn’t with her I would be with you anyway”
Why don’t you concentrate more on finding a man as opposed to dissing men (and women) who find someone they want. Sounds like hateraid to me.”
ONCE AGAIN, JUST BLACK WOMEN BEING JEALOUS OF WHITE WOMEN BECAUSE WE SMELL BETTER, ARE MORE ATTRACTIVE, MORE INTELLIGENT, ETC, ETC, ETC. MAYBE IF YOU TOOK A SHOWER AND GOT A JOB BLACK MEN WOULD WANT YOU.
I agree with you. I’m a BM that loves WW. WW are the prettiest, loveliest, sexiest, finest species on the plant. Yes WW do smell better. Yes WW are shaped better. Yes WW are much prettier…..and that’s not to mention that soft, silky hair. You women are just great!!
‘ey brah!
There are some fine sistahs out there too! I’m married to one.
Eveerybody has their own taste, and I can respect that. But don’t diss the sistahs out there just because you may not found one to meet your liking.
I agree that there are attractive BW out there. I just think that overall WW are more attractive.
I like white girls for the same reasons as i would like any woman intelligence, grace, beauty, sex drive etc all are important. but i think we should also look at the underlying internal resentment in our community.
As a dark skinned black guy i have many times received a less than welcome reception from sisters because of my skin tone being darker than that of the average brother. I think we avoid talking about the divides which exist in our own communities by focusing on other races. There has been significant research which shows lght skin blacks are employed at a fifty percent higher rate an have higher earning potential than dark skin AAS. THIS MAY SOUND RACIST BUT HAVING LIGHTER SKIN HAS AN IMPACT ON HOW YOU ARE PERCEIVED BY THE GREATER SOCIETY AS A WHOLE AND THIS PREFERENCE TENDS TO EXIST ACROSS ALL RACES. SO IN CLOSING I DONT PREFER ANY RACE OF WOMAN OVER ANY OTHER BUT HAVING A CERTAIN COMPLECTION CAN AND WILL HELP MY CHILDREN THATS A FACT.
I wouldn’t touch someone that dated me because I’m white. I have no interest in being someone’s fetish. Certainly, I know black men who are attracted to white women primarily– and I know white women who fetishise black men. I think it is a matter of craving what is perceived as ‘taboo.’ But ultimately– that doesn’t make for a relationship.
I don’t discriminate when it comes to race. I have no preference. I’ve dated black, white, latino, asian and middle eastern. It seems to me that a solid relationship is based on mutual respect and caring for one another as individuals, as well as common ground- Love is a meeting of hearts and minds– anything less is basically self-deception.
My goodness, that woman featured in the picture looks like she’s ready for Sunnyvale Trailer Park, and a hot date with Ricky or Julian! The photo just screams “You can do me for a case of beer!” She should get he title of “Miss Two-Four”!
As my husband asked me before he died, why did you pick me out over any other guy? As I answered him as honestly and what the first thought was that popped into my head. I didn’t pick you but it was written so it is being done and God put us together, go through whatever happened til that moment in time; as he asked me about the other woman he dealt with when he found out he had lung/brain cancer, he said “Where would I be if I was still with Brenda (ex-wife) who cheated on him in front of his eyes, Carolyn (baby momma) not even sure he was the father at 16 yrs old and he said he would already be dead or would have left rather than stay to care for him; but it is what is on the inside not the outside what counts. I stayed with my husband, not leaving his side, died in my arms and white As the movie, The Diary of a Mad Black Woman”, she was black, he left her for a white woman, when he became paralyzed, the white wife left him and his black ex-wife came back to take care of him. So, why all the negativity, you don’t like it don’t look as my husband used to tell me “they can look all they want just don’t touch us to hurt, kill or bother.
That is why Baskin Robbins has 32 flavors of ice cream to choose what you like not what he/she likes or likes for you to get? Life is too short for negativity, just one day have a positively positive day and try it you just might like it instead of being miserable be fortunate, smile not frown, let someone in when waiting in traffic instead of in a hurry to go nowhere or no further than you would have been but may feel good, if that is possible. I asked why so negative answer negativity is the way of the world, but that doesn’t mean I have to be that way; just think if positivity was the way of the world, huh?
I dunno about this ‘white girl mystique’. Some of the hottest chicks right now seem to be ladies of colour like Halle Berry & Rosario Dawson. Of course here in Toronto there’s a large Caribbean community and believe me, some of these women are stunning!!!
Agent Orange,
I see that your undercover mission is over and you are finally able to come in from the cold to comment on this story.
Although I’ve heard that this story has lost it’s significance since first published; the sun has moved 3″ closer to the Earth instantly tanning any and all white women who do not remain indoors.
This has had the effect that black women no longer get angry when they see black men with white women (however now black men don’t know when they’re with a white woman).
It’s been suggested that Jesse Jackson and a super secret scientific foundation are behind this (which is why Essence Magazine is keeping the Rev. Jackson relevant).
BTW,
If your name is in reference to yours or a family members service in Viet Nam then I salute you and thank you.
Why black men prefer white women? Who said that at first place and on which basis? Why white men go to Asia and f*** vietnamese, Laos and other Asia females and no one talks about it? Why so many white men like asian female? Why so much focus on black men going out with white female? It is ok for some to go outside the race but not for the others? Think about it for a moment and you will understand that the history and legacy of this country, stemming from slavery and its related effects is far from dead!
Secondly, it is a lie to say that black men systematically seek white female for companionship; in my humble experience and opinion anyway. Yes there is the curiosity factor but like any others people on this planet, most black men are much more comfortable in their surroundings. The economic arguments can better explain the reasons why black men go out with white female; they are often more educated and earn more money that the sisters and that’s appealing to any average black men. It is therefore important for the black community as a whole to raise itself from its low social and economical level and you will see more brothers and sisters walking hand in hands in the future. Stop the better or worse nonsense, people are people and everyone is looking out for what is better for himself.
*asterisks indicate an edit by site owner.
************* now I don’t know what the white guy did in Asia!
i could care less who blackmen and whitewomen date, my preference is whitemen. they’re better for me and treat me with respect. jealous 0f whitewomen? oh please dont flatter yourself (the one and caj) sorry to disappoint you but there is NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT BLACKMEN AND WHITEWOMEN BEING TOGETHER. your unions consists of two people who decided to be together, nothing more…nothing less….no big deal. it is truly sad that how two pathetic people can have a desire to be envied…too pitiful indeed.
Shoot, tell me where all the pretty white women can be found here in NY and I’ll be there in a jiffy.
I find attractive ‘pale/milky or pasty pale’ white women to be the most attractive women in the world. I only value black or any non-white women more than white women if that black or non-white woman is uniquely pure, profound, and sincere at heart, mind and soul.
So, what’s your point on self-hate? And yes, I can be rightfully discriminant and unprejudiced eventhough you may really be the doubtful one.
Angels in those G-d forsaken churches are not portrayed to be white females not only because of white supremacy but also because of their physical beauty. That is racism but not necessarily is my perception on the beautiful physical features of a pale white woman.
Loving my self is just as bad as hating myself if I don’t care about my spirit and about thinking, saying and doing the things that are purely and profoundly good for my spirit and for the spirit of others. Self-hate and self-love is supposed to be perceived as rebellion against or obedience to the commands and attributes of G-d because that is the biggest way to hate or love yourself and others.
When I walk down the street and even when I was working at playland over the summer no women smiled at me except white women.
So, what’s your point on self-hate? There is no good point at all. It’s just as baseless as people’s points on hypocrisy when my intent and even when my actions invisibly and visibly show that I want to do right thing MORE than the exact opposite of that. Materialism and selfishness. Now that is real hate and pure love is the opposite.
Besides, the only time that it’s ok to judge is when you’re the one who’s doing it or who isn’t being judged by another but when I judge I judge with correct reasoning and with profound understanding. And I just happen to be one of the very few who actually does.
No wonder why it’s so easy to be evil and so difficult to be good because I can rarely find anyone who is morally and intellectually good at thinking, saying and doing things.
The ego is a bitch and is the real killer. That’s what made satan. Selfishness is the root of all evil. Laziness, envy, greed and injustice all comes from selfishness rather than the other way around.
Money or love for money is more evil than love for pale white women?
Sss. Sh*t, it’s actually the love for attractive pale white women that makes these niggas out here sin more than the love for money. You want a book of spiritual guidance that really delivers pure truth and rational teachings? Then you want the Qur’an. Like Tupac (r.i.p)said: “Spiritual lyrics like the holy Qur’an.”
Jesus was not only a man but was also a black man. Christianity and christians not only lie and go against the first (biggest) monotheistic command of all but they also lie and go against objective truth in general. Man is not and cannot be G-d and hair like lambs wool with feet like burnt brass is as African and dark-skinned as you or anyone can be.
I type out G-d so much rather than God to sincerely show my utmost respect for the True Creator of the earth and universe because God is spelled as doG backwards.
And no I don’t worship pale white women or ‘white p*ssy’. Most of these niggas out here may but I don’t. My main and biggest intent of all is based on the True Guidance of Islam/Pure Monotheism and very often I give most of my thoughts, time and devotion to G-d.
You do worse than judge me when you prejudge me.
“But y’all play fair. Give me what’s good and I’ll share. Until y’all show us who cares, mad mayhem is gonna remain out here.”
why are white womans who date black man trash?what is so big deal when a white woman like black man?or a black like white?i find a problem when a white like a black who is whit somebody else.how long you dont take the life partner from somebody else i dont find a problem to be 2 difrent racest togheter.in the case iff somebody is racist-and they are many-then yes!they see a big problem in this.i like black man end i am white.y am sure not all black like me.maybe some.all people like different style.you know…some man like skiny woman and very thin some like fat whit big ass,etc.this why y say all we are free to chose to be whit who we want and we like.we are independent and nowebody else can chose our lifes exept GOD!this why y dont agree when some would judge me that y am a trash bag because y am white and y have sex whit a black man.yff y feel good is my problem.y would not change my style and my preferences for novebody else.
My experience with black women is that once they find out you are married to a goog black man, they hate. My husband followed me for two years before we even started dating, because, as he still says now, of my pretty blue eyes, and a beautiful shaped body (I do have long athletic legs, big blue eyes, tight sexy and big butt, and pretty long hair). My husband dated women from other races before we started dating. I think having a white woman is his preference, and he does take a look at pretty black women, and compliments them. We have three kids now, and believe me, our marriage takes a lot of effort from both of us. We have three kids now, and thank God, they do not see the color as a problem. My advise to black women: Do not hate women of other race because they have a black man. See what is out there for you. I know many white man, especially European (and they are wonderful men and lovers!) who would do anything to have ablack woman. The only thing I would say, the black women who hate are too much drama, so drop the drama, and see what’s out there for you. Believe me, I did not take one of your men, he was the one who chased me down. And I worked hard to make sure our marriage is working. It takes a lot of effort to cook for my family every day, run the household, go to work, and make sure that everyone is happy. Maybe that’s why we are still together. I wish to all women, black, white, asian, latinos, or any other, that they find a good man, and do not be afraid to go outside of race to look for one – besides, the mized kids are really adorsble! So ladies, lets help each other to find a good man, instead of fighting, and beign jealous toward each other. Jovanka.
Realistically, like attracts like. Normally, if you see a trailer trash WW with a black guy, chances are pretty good that he’s ghetto trash himself. Get out the hood and you won’t see it that often.
On college campuses and in professional workplaces, however… black men are sought after by many women – not just white ones. The problem for black women is that they 1.) rejected these men because of superficial requirements (i.e., height, looks) 2.) were too busy being “independent” to even recognize the good black men (note to sistas: “independent’ means NORMAL. Paying bills, buying groceries, handling your business? That’s AVERAGE. Women of other races don’t go around screaming that shit…) and 3.) are inherently lesbian, man-hating women.
Here in Detroit, you can find heterosexual, attractive white women that appreciate a man’s intellect, work ethic, and potential much easier than you can find a black woman of the same qualities… and if you find a sista like that, she sure as hell ain’t gonna be straight. And she’ll most likely be used goods as well.
I personally think that many brothas are dating white women for 2 reasons. First, love is color blind. Secondly… if you live in urban areas like Detroit, you’re sick and tired of all the black man-hating, questionable sexuality, hoochie dressing, stereotype-loving and embracing black woman. While black men have been ROYALLY fucking up for years – decades even – the good ones that black women ignore and skip over are going to continue to be the ones that leave them (and the black community in some cases) and their “hood niggas” behind.
Also… I’ve found that white women are MUCH more likely to approach a man when they’re interested. Sistas – in 2008 – refuse to do so. That will be a problem too.
Now, with this being said let’s flip the script. Why is it when white and asian women see a black woman with white man they treat her like garbage, give her dirty looks and stairs and ask her how did they meet? They even find it hard to believ you could possibly be educated. The men who dates/marries black women do not get treated as harshly as a black woman who communes outside her race. It seems that even if the BW is attractive some WW still look at her as if she is not worthy. Black people you all know that racism exists enough in our own culture and that in itself is issue enough. Beauty and attractiveness comes in many different ways. Why lower your standards by even commenting to ignorance? Personally, I think you can’t help who you love. At the same time, I also believe that really no one should down anyone else based on race. Men that dog out BW, remember your momma and maybe daughters are black too. There needs to be a respect for people. As our Presidentb Barack Obama, states, “It’s time for change”. I think that anything after but is bullshit! Race should not be an issue because we all know that “failure is colored blind”.
This is my first post but I want to comment on this. As a highly educated Black man and extremely eligible bachelor my intent was to find a BW of similar means settle down and start a family. Over the years I’ve realized two things. Women from other races dig me a lot more than BW do and I’m not ugly in the least. The BW that I have dated or attempted to date turned me down or seemed to have hangups over past relationships which I really didn’t care about because we were supposed to be talking about the here and now. Being disappointed again and again has forced me to look into dating women of other races which I do and have come to realize that it doesn’t matter the race because any woman can bring excess baggage into a relationship. But I find overall BW shoot me down more than other races and if I am out on a date with an asian woman BW hate on it yet at times when I roll solo they won’t even talk to me and worse if they do, they don’t know how to talk to me except in a condescending manner which annoys the hell out of me. So even though I’m open to women of all races other women in other cultures except BW seem to enjoy the benefits of being around an educated BM more. Until BW realize just how much of a commodity educated BM are here in the US and the rest of the world then things are not going to change. Lastly my mother instilled in me that you can’t help who you fall in love with now I understand what she meant.
Lonzo Lucas II, I understand where you are coming from because me as an educated and highly sofisticated BW get the same reaction from BM. There are even BM who are with WW that still give me drama. Still I would like to know what the other side of the coin is when WW give the same attitude. Is it that they feel that they are better than the BF? This we all know is not true. We are all equal and people need to realize this, but when you have BM talking down on the BF then they assure everyone else out there with negative thinking that it’s okay. You cannot allow another person’s negative reaction to control your thoughts, emotions and ways of thinking. There is good in all races, but there is also bad. Downing someone because of the color their skin is down right nasty and it reflects what is truly in ones heart. So my comment to everyone is think before you speak because once it’s out there is no taking it back.
I am a white woman who has been married to a black man for 15 years. I was an ‘equal opportunity’ dater and finally fell in love with my hubby because he was kind and loving. I have seen so much discrimination in the past 15 years, it’s pathetic. And I am talking about discrimination from BOTH sides of the color spectrum. Here’s what people think when they see us:
“That guy is just with her because she has money” FALSE! My husband makes all the income and I am a full-time student (going back to school for nursing) and a stay-at-home mother to 3 beautiful boys.
“She must be a white-trash skank” FALSE! I have had an average amount of partners. I didn’t sleep with my husband for 6 months after we started to date and he said it was ‘refreshing’ and he respected me for it.
“He must hate black women” FALSE! He was an equal-opportunity dater, too. He adores his mother, sisters, cousins, our neighbors and friends.
People want to judge us when we are out and about. Once when we were at a club, a black man walked up to me and started grabbing my butt and pulling me onto the dance floor. Of course my husband told him to leave me alone and they guy said “why don’t you let this white whore decide who she’s sleeping with tonight?” HUH?!?
Another time we passed a black woman and she called him a sellout. He stopped and went back and told her that her negative attitude was one of the reasons many black men date outside of their race.
When I meet white women and they find out my husband is black, they do one of a few things….
1. Ask me if the myth is true. Seriously?? Should my husband’s penis size be ANY of your business?!?
2. Avoid me because I must be of a lower class.
3. Be extra nice to me because they want to prove they are not racist. Dang that’s annoying.
Anyhoodles, just wanted to share some of my experiences. We get racism from all angles, but I can say that in the past 15 years there has been a lot of positive change in regards to people’s perceptions. I think that is why this article disappointed me. I had thought we’d moved past some of this. **Sigh**
There have been some interesting responses here to the issues of black men dating white women, and it’s effects on black women, a fact that is often ignored.
Too say the mixing of the races do not matter, is ignorant. The discussion on this site is evidence from the arguement put forward by black men and women, which is a subject too vast, to to pretend feelings do not matter.
Dating out of your race is up to the individual, but at the detriment of others; particularly the children whom are mixed (look at the mixed race sites). These children clearly do not know whom they are. From the comments on these sites, they definately do not want to be seen as black. Historically, they would automatically come under the banner of black. Now they want to be known as a race of their own: why not? Well we know the media show mixed races instead of darker skin black people, as the token black, a view excepted by black people. But if they are no longer black then the battle for full black models should be fought for in the media, e.g. modelling.
Further, some responsibility must be place on black men, to ensure their fairer skined women do not disrepect women from their cultured background, and vice versa, (as above, you’ll find an example of the lower class white female verbally attacking the black female’s the statistics with foul langage). In attacking b/w she have attacked her black man’s grand/mother/sister/daughter.
The black man or woman cannot put aside his history when his preference to the pale skin of his white female is his chosen. To quote by Rajen Persaud from his just book “Why Black Men Love White Women, ‘He finds it hard to connect with the Black woman, outside of sensation, since she serves as the symbol of his failure. By giving birth to him she represents the synthesis of his circumstance, the precious gift of life once cherished now become a curse, her womb a graveyard as life became death. As a result, he will chase the white woman to the ends of the earth, and will stop only when he catches his mind… With the b/m preference of white’s women, the atrocity of slavery should at all times be remembered.
As black woman, we should rememer that the black man is the weaker sex, mentally he has suffered and is obviously maimed because he was unable to defend himself and protect the black woman during slavery. Dr Lewin sums it up perfectly, ‘Down through the ages the more the Black woman was soiled, the more the white woman was deified. And so the white man’s relationship with the Black woman, and his protection of the white woman, created an appetite of vengeful lust within Black men, and a dawning interest in Black men by white women. After seeing the white man ravage the Black woman, it is only natural that the Black man wants to reciprocate. Whether to get even or just out of curiosity, inevitably a journey toward the white woman will sooner or later be embarked upon…’
Black women, during slavery, we were considered by white men to be the most beautiful, and morally standing of women. We kept our head high, even when we was held down and rape. The changes happen when the mixture of the black and white blood produce children that looked down on their black parents, for being too dark, thereby they were restricted to plantation field work instead of the higher rated house servant work.
To turn away from your historical background is to forget our ancestry, and our fathers/husband/sons whom were lynched. The black woman have a duty to educate their children so that we do not forget the past – it is our history, and the white man darken past.
What race or culture do not have a history… to be proud of. Darwin stated the survival of the fitness… you survived. Let the black man give his blackness away through his children. We have a duty keep the black race and our history alive by sticking together.
Blessings!!!!!!
It seems like life would be exhausting if you had to live it with the constant need to remind people about slavery….to remind them how angry it makes you feel and how you will never forget or forgive a single second of it, even though you never experienced it. You now sit in front of a computer, probably in your warm house or apartment thinking about your job or where you’ll go out to dinner all the while reminding everyone of the events of over a century ago.
It was a horrible time in the U.S. Democrats were fighting to keep slavery alive (yes…the dems didn’t want slavery to end) and many white people were monsters.
I, however, have chosen not to feel guilty for the horrific choices white people made over a century ago. I am responsible for my behavior and the behavior of my children. Do I think it was deplorable? Absolutely. Am I saddened by it? Very much so. But should I feel personally responsible for what some white men did a hundred and thirty years ago? No. I think white liberal guilt prevents people from saying this exact thing….it is often kept inside because to disagree with a person of color instantly earns you the title “bigot”.
Well, I disagree with you sonia.pillay. Your ‘analysis’ of slave/white behavior may have been true in the 1800’s, but I believe it is re-hashed garbage today.
You said:
” To turn away from your historical background is to forget our ancestry, and our fathers/husband/sons whom were lynched. The black woman have a duty to educate their children so that we do not forget the past – it is our history, and the white man darken past. ”
I am assuming you think that if you date outside your race you will be “turning away from your historical background and forgetting your ancestry and your fathers/husbands/sons whom were lynched.” That is such a fallacy! You can date whomever you choose and still honor your family history, values and beliefs.
Black people want equality which I applaud! I give you equality, but that means that you have to be willing to come to the table as an equal…..not a victim full of hatred and distrust. It’s time to free yourself.
man is man.no matter what.if I go in a club and i dance whit a man and i sleep in this night whit him ,call me everybody a bit..ch.iff man go to whore hauses,or sleep whit a bunch of women and cheat his whife or girlfriend nobody judge him.we try to change the mind and conception since many generation,but my conclusion is that would be always like this.the women would be always judge no matter what.now i am not a racial person but i dont understand why black men thinck that white w are so easy?why call ww whore?is not al like this.how can somebody to say hat all women from one race are same?it is stupid.maybee not all black men thinck like this but i hear a lot.i dont thinck that white w are more easy like asian latino or black.depends of persoanlity every w is different,i know women from all races who sleep whit alot of men,and also w from al races who sleep whit less men.where is the problem?why judgeeverybody so much the ww?in effect 90% off men cheat.and is not about color or race.i have nothinck whit black men.i have experience two times whit black men.but not a relation ship.i just was curious how is.humans like to try always somethinck different.so i done it.was allright but i never imagine myself in a relation ship whit a black men.is not because i am racial person.just y saw that they like to use white women.they thinck that ww have not strong caracter and can use them however.but i am not the kind off person who let somebody to use me.i am white but i amnot somebodys whore.before that a man use me i make sure that i let him first.and what is interesting after hapen the contact between me and black guy i refuse to se him.but he always stell insist to se me.but was no way.so i just wanna make clear that not all ww are dumb and not all accept to be use.i have nothin whit black men i just say what i saw.
It would seem to me that the problem is not necassarily with the mix of races, where mixed children are concerned, but the way these children are raised. It does not matter what the color of your skin is there is always someone that will have something negative to say. Therefore, this is something all children must and deal with. Secondly, if you know who you are then there is nothing people can say to bring you down. Thus, teaching our kids to believe in themselves. Third, be proud of who you are. If our children are taught to embrace who they are then that in itself will make a difference. No matter what, you cannot control the way another person acts or thinks, but you can control your own actions. Face it! If you want a good partner than it should not matter what race they are. As stated before, ignorance comes in all races. Just because someone is involved with someone outside of their race does not mean they have lost focus on their identity. If this is the case, the bible’s scripture to love one another as you love yourself , love thy neighbor, Martin Luther King’s speech I have a dream and Malcolm X’s, who at one time was closed minded, trip to the promise land and finding their were people of other skin, and our very own President Barack Obama would have no meaning for their existence. This is a new day and age and things have changed significantly. Yes, I know about the lynching of our ancestors, but I also know that there are also good white people that also helped us then and are helping us now. The black race has been mixed with every race you can imagine. This meaning that just because you see someone that looks black, white…etc does that mean that is their actual race. If we are to speak of the truth then speak of the whole truth. You must work on yourself as an individual then you will find you will have no time to judge everyone else.
Remember we all have to go through something to get somewhere worthy.
And the worthiest place of all to go to is? And exactly what type of moral lessons should we learn in order to get there?
Being ignorant and wanting to be ignorant are two totally different things.
No one can fool Allah. We only fool our own selves.
Hopefully in time with the help of Allah many of us can sincerely believe and repent from our biggest errors in life.
Before it too late to avoid the biggest regret of all.
Or at least try with very best of our intent to really earn for ourselves the worthiest place of all.
The point is that we all have sinned and fallen short of his glory. You and no one else can judge the type of relationship one has with God. That is between them and their Savior. We all want to get to heaven but you cannot tell a person how to get there if you are not sure yourself. I say although we may not agree. I still respect your opinion and you really should do the same. Who is willing to go down the road less traveled? God knows all and see all. We must love others as ourselves. Yes, we should work on earning ourselves to the most worthiest place. Remember, you can’t tell me how to get there if you have never been there yourself. God looks in our hearts and knows our intentions.
Never, never do I intend to direct anything towards others in a personal or shallow way. At times I do wrong as we all do, but I always go against my own ego when it really is time for me to relate to and submit to truth. Not according to how I choose to percieve it but according to how truth commands me to perceive it. Does that also and should that also imply to you and everyone else?
Surely we’re all on different levels but how much are you willing to be profoundly honest and considerate instead of nihilistic/blindly optimistic?
Am I being judgmental/opinionated by simply asking a profound question? And isn’t it a fact that being ignorant isn’t the same as wanting to be ignorant? A fact that an innocent defense isn’t at all the same as a hedonistic and lawless/anarchistic defense?
Then how can you, I or anyone else even make an attempt to distinguish fact from opinion and truth from falsehood if the best you can say is “truth is perceived according to how we perceive it” or “never impose your beliefs except for when they’re financially related”?
If we are very willing to be very profound-minded and understanding we can for once eliminate anarchy and nihilism altogether. Unfortunately, way too many obviously want to support nihilism than oppose it.
And honestly, I even really do adore philosophy more than attractive/seductive pale white women. Not to mention how much I really do adore having profound monotheistic discussions if that is profoundly fine with the other person.
Realism vs romanticism.
Now, for the sake of being very pertinent and profound-minded here, exactly who is the maker of the white race? Has anyone else ever seriously asked or considered that question? Seriously, let’s be real.
White men and white women have always been known for causing and spreading a dominatingly evil influence of thiers from all over the globe.
Racism and lust are both evil. Agree or disagree that to be a fact?
Never has a certain race/people of a continent supported and promoted these certain types of evils more than the white race/people of Europe. Agree or disagree that to be a fact?
Nowadays, lust/sexual passion is obviously being supported, promoted and represented by the white race much more than racism is. Agree or disagree that to be a fact?
Unfortunately many times we may tend to agree with lust but never agree with racism and neither of them should be agreed with. Agree or disagree with that to be a fact?
The KKK (realist representatives of racism and shallow hatred) and seductive white bitches (realist representatives of lust and seduction) actually have more in common than a black man who is so obsessed with white women even though they may all serve an evil purpose. Agree with or disagree with that to be a fact?
This topic is about white women only which means that you’ll always think it’s my opinion to think that there are no women out here who are more sexually influential than white women. And sexual influence is derived from sexual attraction. Agree or disagree with that to be a fact?
This may interest you and I’m sure many other things about white women are as true as this one ———> http://www.blackvoices.com/blogs/2008/01/11/european-women-head-to-africa-for-sex/.
Mind Ova Matta,
Let your bitterness and racism go and you will be FREE!!!!! You will be happy and able to give your Allah all you believe He deserves.
I agree THAT to be a fact.